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How Can Men Stay Open When They Feel Defensive?
Learn why men become defensive in relationships and how to stay open during difficult conversations. Practical communication skills from a Tucson men’s therapist.

Dana Barger, MA, LAC, NCC
Sep 286 min read


Why Do Men Feel Responsible for Fixing Everything? Understanding Problem-Solving, Responsibility, and the Pressure to Be Useful
Why do men feel responsible for fixing everyone’s problems? Explore male problem-solving, overfunctioning, emotional support, control, and self-worth.

Dana Barger, MA, LAC, NCC
Sep 26 min read


Why Is It So Hard for Men to Ask for Help? Understanding Self-Reliance, Vulnerability, and the Pressure to Handle It Yourself
Why do men struggle to ask for help? Learn how self-reliance, masculinity, vulnerability, competence, and fear of burdening others can make receiving support difficult.

Dana Barger, MA, LAC, NCC
Aug 246 min read


What Am I Actually Feeling? Emotional Awareness For Men
"How are you? It's one of the most common questions we ask each other. And one of the easiest to answer without really answering. "I'm good." "Just tired." "Stressed." Maybe those words genuinely fit. Or maybe they're placeholders: quick, familiar responses that help move the conversation along. For many men, describing emotions was never a skill that was taught. Men learned how to solve problems, work hard, stay productive, and keep moving. They didn't always learn how to id

Dana Barger, MA, LAC, NCC
Aug 74 min read
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